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Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer

Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer

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Chely Wright, singer, songwriter, country music star, writes in this moving, telling memoir about her life and her career; about growing up in America’s heartland, the youngest of three children; about barely remembering a time when she didn’t know she was different.
 
She writes about her parents, putting down roots in their twenties in the farming town of Wellsville, Kansas, Old Glory flying atop the poles on the town’s manicured lawns, and being raised to believe that hard work, honesty, and determination would take her far.
 
She writes of making up her mind at a young age to become a country music star, knowing then that her feelings and crushes on girls were “sinful” and hoping and praying that she would somehow be “fixed.” (“Dear God, please don’t let me be gay. I promise not to lie. I promise not to steal. I promise to always believe in you . . . Please take it away.”)
 
We see her, high school homecoming queen, heading out on her own at seventeen and landing a job as a featured vocalist on the Ozark Jubilee (the show that started Brenda Lee, Red Foley, and Porter Wagoner), being cast in Country Music U.S.A., doing four live shows a day, and—after only a few months in Nashville—her dream coming true, performing on the stage of the Grand Ole Opry . . .
 
She describes writing and singing her own songs for producers who’d discovered and recorded the likes of Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, and Toby Keith, who heard in her music something special and signed her to a record contract, releasing her first album and sending her out on the road on her first bus tour . . . She writes of sacrificing all for a shot at success that would come a couple of years later with her first hit single, “Shut Up And Drive” . . . her songs (from her fourth album, Single White Female) climbing the Billboard chart for twenty-nine weeks, hitting the #1 spot . . . 
 
She writes about the friends she made along the way—Vince Gill, Brad Paisley, and others—writing songs, recording and touring together, some of the friendships developing into romantic attachments that did not end happily . . . Keeping the truth of who she was clutched deep inside, trying to ignore it in a world she longed to be a part of—and now was—a world in which country music stars had never been, could not be, openly gay . . .
 
She writes of the very real prospect of losing everything she’d worked so hard to create . . . doing her best to have a real life—her best not good enough . . .
 
And in the face of everything she did to keep herself afloat, she writes about how the vortex of success and hiding who she was took its toll: her life, a tangled mess she didn’t see coming, didn’t want to; and, finally, finding the guts to untangle herself from the image of the country music star she’d become, an image steeped in long-standing ideals and notions about who—and what—a country artist is, and what their fans expect them to be . . .
 
I am a songwriter,” she writes. “I am a singer of my songs—and I have a story to tell. As I’ve traveled this path that has delivered me to where I am today, my monument of thanks, paying honor to God, remains. I will do all I can with what I have been given . . .”
 
Like Me is fearless, inspiring, true.
 


Product Details
Author:Chely Wright
Hardcover:304 pages
Publisher:Pantheon
Publication Date:May 04, 2010
Language:English
ISBN:0307378861
Product Length:5.88 inches
Product Width:1.22 inches
Product Height:8.55 inches
Product Weight:1.13 pounds
Package Length:8.19 inches
Package Width:5.83 inches
Package Height:1.26 inches
Package Weight:1.15 pounds
Average Customer Rating: based on 60 reviews

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Average Customer Review:4.5 ( 60 customer reviews )
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45 of 50 found the following review helpful:


5Worth the Read  May 06, 2010 By Kasey Schiedeck
I've been a fan of Chely Wright's since I first discovered country music in my teens. Since then she has somewhat fallen out of the spotlight but I was thrilled when I learned she was returning this month with a new album and a memoir.

While it is no surprise that her "coming out" was matched time-wise with the release of her album/book, I am happy to say the book is not a tell all ridiculous concoction of seemingly false or exaggerated encounters with famous and non-famous men and women. It is NOT about her life as a lesbian although this is an important part of her self. It's about much more than that.

The book is quite a read--very intriguing and extremely well written. Wright as a songwriter has a knack for poetic form to tell her story. Hers is one of a small town Kansan who moves to Nashville to follow her dreams. What a refreshing All-American story this is, and a reminder of why this country is so grand. I highly recommend.

41 of 46 found the following review helpful:


5A beautiful story, well told  May 05, 2010 By Book Shark
All the press about Miss Wright's 'coming out' may obscure the fact that she has written an intensely personal and beautiful debut book. Along with her melodic singing voice, she has a beautiful literary voice and tells an all-American tale of dreams, delving and disappointment. She has had an amazing life full of courage and commitment and I applaud her for sharing it with all of us.

28 of 31 found the following review helpful:


5Wonderful book.  May 08, 2010 By nwask
I have been a fan of Chely Wright since the 90's, I was excited to hear the news that she had a new album coming out. After hearing her very personal and courageous coming out story, I had to read her memoir. I too am a gay woman who has struggled with the fact and that I tried so hard to change but knew I couldn't. This book was so personal and I was able to really relate to many many things Chely wrote about regarding her internal struggle with accepting herself. I read the book in one day, I couldn't put it down. I want my family (especially my mother) to read this book to try and understand more of how I feel about myself and Chely wrote it beautifully. Her story will help many LGBT youth and adults and hopefully their families. Thank you Chely for your strength and courage, good luck with your journey.

11 of 12 found the following review helpful:


5Speechless...  May 30, 2010 By sayock
This is probably the hardest thing I've ever sat down to review...

First off, I'm not one of those people reviewing as a Chely Wright fan. I used to listen to country music in the 90s, so I know who she is and have a few songs on my iPod. But I was not enough into her or her music to know about her personal life (i.e. dating Brad Paisley, rumors about being a lesbian, etc) or anything else beyond the few songs of hers that I happened to see videos for or hear on the radio. Point being, this review is not at all coming from a place of bias.

...The book is hilarious. It's not meant to be, but, for me, it has been. People have used the word "candid." That is about right. She's so candid, it's stunning and comical. There are parts where the book gets boring, but that's also about your personal interests and what you wanted to get out of the book. Personally, I was interested in reading about her relationships and her struggle with her sexuality, not necessarily an autobiography or about how much she respects people who serve in the military and such. But I knew it wouldn't all be about her personal life, and parts of those other stories are interesting. I especially love how she discusses the country music industry and her various experiences with other artists, how some of her romantic relationships actually came with women in that industry, her experience with some narrowminded show host in NY, etc.

You say "wow" out loud so many times with this book. Chely seems to be getting positive fan reaction, but I can tell from things she has written about in this book, how much she has bluntly stated about the country music industry and how narrowminded a lot of those people seem to be, that as much as coming out as a lesbian probably hurts her with the *industry* or at least particular people in it...once word gets around about some of the things in this book, the book probably will add to that in some ways. Some of it comes off as vindictive, to be honest. Still, some of the things she had the guts/"balls" to put out there just made me laugh out loud from being so stunned that I had just read it. She also kind of goes off on rants about what people think about gays and/or overthinks it, and she even stops and compares it to interracial marriage being illegal back in the day and cites the Loving v Virginia case (which also blew my mind, considering this is a country singer/white female from a part of Kansas that was, no doubt, lily white, and, yeah...wasn't expecting her to care anything about interracial marriage being legal or not, sorry).

Chely is complex. I don't know if anyone else gets that from this book, but I do and it's fascinating--perhaps more fascinating than anything else about the book. She comes off good, but she also comes off badly at the same time. She puts herself out there. You can tell she's pretty weak, especially considering the ridiculous romantic relationships/women she has settled for. She comes off desperate because of that, as well. Some situations are very detailed and others aren't, and you have to wonder if that's a function of her not being a writer or if it's by design. It's not totally clear why her relationship with her parents has been the way it has been. She seems to want us to believe her mother is a "bad guy," but it's not totally clear why, for example.

Chely also seems to want to paint herself as the typical good little conservative (in personality), Midwestern female--very good morals and values and faith in the Lord, loves the troops and all that typical stuff you'd associate with a country music artist...yet, she writes about sleeping with a married woman for years and years like it's no big thing, and then writes about another relationship with this drunk bulimic (and flatout writes that she had sex at the back of her tour bus with Paisley). Furthermore, she writes about the married woman being "the love of [her] life," and at times after the relationship it seems like she still has feelings for this woman (maybe even now)...and yet--I don't know if anyone else reading this book felt like this, but--I'm sitting there like, "what is the matter with you??" The married woman seemed self-centered, jealous and, at times, like she flatout didn't care about Chely, the way Chely describes their relationship. Very intriguing stuff, especially in terms of being the way she'd like us to believe and then being attracted to the kind of women she was into it and what she was willing to put up with from these women. She's one of those people who is very intelligent but doesn't at all seem like it when picking partners.
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Conclusion: I could write all night about this book, but to end...let me just add that someone advised I not buy this book at full price when I asked if it was worth it. I bought it for the Kindle application on the iPod Touch, and it was about $10. I bought some other books, as well. This is the one book I couldn't "put down." I don't know about anyone else, but I leave the book just feeling and thinking a range of tangled feelings/thoughts about Chely. It's like the more I read what is essentially her autobiography, the more curious I become about her and the more questions I have. It's better than any work of fiction could come up with, and I would certainly pay full price for this book. In most spots, despite the lack of details in some parts (vs the "I can't believe she went there" details in others), it is surprisingly well-written...and even if you're not a Chely Wright fan, an incredible read.

11 of 12 found the following review helpful:


5Chely Wright is Honest, Powerful, and Intensely Courageous  May 11, 2010 By MG
Who would have thought that an unbelievably talented, bright, country girl from Kansas would be harboring such a painful and debilitating secret? That is just the point that Chely Wright is trying to make with her new memoir, "Like Me." Driven to silence and shame by the conservative community that she grew up in, Chely Wright struggled with her homosexuality from childhood on. In this powerful account of her lifelong battle, Chely shows us how stereotypes, intolerance, and ignorance can deplete a person and drive them to take extreme measures to avoid having to face the painful truth.

Chely has mentioned that her coming out may ultimately end her career in country music. I beg to differ; anyone who picks up this book or listens to her new album can have nothing but respect for her work. Country music fans seek honesty and passion in their words and music, and that is exactly what Chely Wright delivers. Chely's honesty is admirable to say the least; her memoir will enlighten those with a more conservative mindset, and will comfort those who are struggling with their own personal battles. Harboring a secret of your own? You will not feel alone after reading this book.

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